So, I got married…

Yep, as strange as it may be, I am now a  husband. I wasn’t really planning to as I’m not a fan of the marriage tradition and the pratriarchical things it stands for, but I am only mildly opposed to to the idea so when my girlfriend insisted upon it, I didn’t care enough to oppose it so much.

We were planning for the marriage to happen in summer but due to various circumstances, this didn’t manifest. Thus we decided to just have a civil wedding this year and do the ceremony stuff next year, where we’d have more time for planning. The civil wedding was going to be kept very short and sweet, with only a few people invited.

And then came the subject of the clothes. My soon-to-be-wife categorically objected in me going to the civil service on anything casual and I stedfastly refused to use a suit & tie setup. As we were thinking of a compromise, an idea came to me and I was delighted that she found it exciting as well: A Steampunk theme. This way, I would both be wearing something that wasn’t casual or conforming.

So we set about trying to create an outfit for this day. Unfortunately I couldn’t find a lot for the actual steampunk stuff other than the victorian-era clothes and the goggles, but even so, I think the end result was good.

So without further ado, here’s some pics that I found very good. You can see the whole album here (If you get 500 errors, use the slideshow option from the drop-down menu on the top right. Should be more stable)

Here we are in front of the Romer city hall. This is the place where the German kings were crowned. As you can see, we’re a…diverse bunch 🙂

Here’s the two of us close up. I think the attire was a success.

This is in the “ceremony” and the actual signing of papers and stuff. In the first pic, you can see me giving this decision some thought.

This is after the wedding, outside of the building. Given the amount of marriages that happen there daily (about one per 30 mins) throwing rice to the couple is forbidden, or else by the end of the day, the entrance would be covered in it. So as an alternative, our crazy Russian friend, throw intra-cook rice bags at us as we were coming out. In the last pic, you can see a bunch of children which were completely surprised by the way we looked. One asked us “Why do you look so bad?”.

We were quite the attraction that day in fact. The Japanese tourists probably thought we were part of the setting.

These are from the breakfast and lunch times. We went for both one after the other so there wasn’t enough time to digest. However we did leave out some space for the cake, which as you can see, we tried to build to the theme as well. There was so much left of it, that I brought practically half of it to work for the people there to eat 🙂

So there you have it. Next year, we’ll have one more 🙂

19 thoughts on “So, I got married…

  1. Congratulations, and wonderful photos. The Nova Initia team, my wife and I all wish you a joyous and long life together. One hint: The whole "get me a sammich" thing only works if you make the joke without meaning it. After a while she'll think its funny to bring you one anyway. 😉

      1. LOLOL FUNNY JOKES BRAH. AT LEAST YOUR CONSISTENT IN THE FACT THAT YOU'RE NOT IN SOLIDARITY WITH FEMINISM REGARDLESS OF WHO IS BEING DEMEANED.

        YOU ARE QUITE THE CATCH THERE, CHIEF.

        1. The only one not in solidarity with feminism is the one causing damage to it by being ignorant.

  2. Congrats! This is probably the most I've ever seen of your face lol. I got married five years ago with about the same amount of reluctance, and I felt like a sellout.

  3. I insisted, I objected on something not-casual… you sound like I own you!!! And I sound like a dragon. Can you exchange a few stuff so my feminist side is a bit more satisfied??? And.: The translation for the child´ s questio is: Why do you look so evil? (she asked that because of the red glasses) kthxbye

    1. I insisted, I objected on something not-casual… you sound like I own you!!!

      but, but…you do!

      j/k 🙂

  4. I'm a little late to the party but congrats to you and the lady my friend!

    Love the period outfits btw!

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